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First of all, I need to apologize for not updating in such an incredibly long time (going on 4 months now). Effectively, I owe you all 16 updates worth of content. Yeah... that is not going to happen!

So what have I been up to since my last update? The majority of my time goes to taking care of my mom. When I first made this temporary move to Kansas in the early Fall of '06, I anticipated the time to take on a load of work from Handheld Games. After being here, however, I've discovered this just simply isn't an option. When you factor in household chores, taxes, bills, and being a caregiver, there is very little time left in the day. The time I do have available gets spent chatting with Abby on the phone, playing a little bit of World of Warcraft, or tossing around an imaginary tennis ball in Wii Sports. Most of the activities we do for fun in the evening involve the whole family, as well.

This past Christmas was probably one of the best I have had in a very long time! Abby was able to visit for almost three full weeks, which was a true blessing for all of us (me, most of all). The personality and fun she brought with her really livened up the house and got us all in the true Christmas spirit. The only downside to her being here was that she had to leave at the end of the month to head home to Ellensburg, WA to finish her degree. She has two quarters remaining of classes, then one quarter of student teaching. Words cannot begin to describe how proud I am of her!

Although we are technically done with curative treatment and are now on hospice, we haven't given up. I still have a very good feeling about mom's recovery, and I think the next several months will be important steps in a good direction. We're considering a new, highly-concentrated IV dose of vitamin C. It is proving to work wonders in patients in her position, where everything else medical science knows about just doesn't seem to work. We'll be discussing it with our oncologist this week to see what his thoughts on it are. Whatever is decided will be best, I am sure.

I just wanted to say thank you again to everyone who has taken the time to support me and what my family is going through. I have the best fiancé, friends here and afar, and family that anyone could ever ask for. I'm not entirely certain what the future holds for any of us, but I do know it will have plenty of good and great days in it.

Posted By: Julia01.19.2007
@ 5:04 PM
I'm so glad you updated Dave, I have been thinking about your family (especially your mom) recently. I drove past your house on my way home from a last minute run to Dillons on Christmas Eve and said a prayer for her. Having a sick parent is so scary and I really admire the way you have moved home to help out wherever you can. I hope that if I was in the same situation I would act as selflessly as you have. I wish you and your family courage and your mother healing and recovery.
Posted By: dbh01.20.2007
@ 7:21 PM
Thank you for the prayers and hope-filled thoughts, Julia. She was doing better earlier this week, but today and yesterday really have us scared. We're still hopeful, but her symptoms are worsening. God is still with her and helping her through this, though... that is more evident than ever.

Thank you again for everything,
-David
Posted By: Abby01.20.2007
@ 7:29 PM
I love you Dave! And I love your mom! I pray everyday.

~Abby
Posted By: Nancy01.21.2007
@ 7:10 PM
Our prayers and thoughts are with all of you. We love you.
Posted By: dbh01.27.2007
@ 1:45 PM
Thank you Abby and Nancy for your continued support and love :) I'll be posting another update here after this weekend.

-David
Posted By: zhoubobby02.14.2007
@ 5:07 PM
DBH!

Are you still in Lawrence? If so, I am going to stop by sometime this week at your place.

Give me a call anytime, 9-1-3-217*5172
Posted By: Kyle Case03.12.2007
@ 12:20 AM
Its been to long dave.. i hope all is well..
I am deploying for another tour in May.. maybe someday we will catch up.. take care of yourself
Posted By: Kyle Case03.12.2007
@ 12:21 AM
Oh.. and i am Resitin.. alliance Paladin on gorefiend
Posted By: dbh08.13.2007
@ 12:15 PM
You will notice I have removed all of the Add Comment functionality from the site. This is due to the disturbing fact that a porn-bot has discovered my site and is taking advantage of my anonymous-friendly post methodology. For now, no more posts are allowed on this site until I can take the time to come up with a more elaborate system (required registration is likely).

In the meantime, I encourage anyone interested in catching up with me to simply send me an e-mail at: dbh@davidbhowe.net.

Thanks again everyone!
-David
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